The best way I have found is to find someone who can sit with you and show you how to make coils and wicks, 15 mins of one on one is worth a hundred hours on Youtube and forums.
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I was the first person to embrace vaping at work and with my friends so its been me who has had to do it the hard way and teach myself the skills to make a descent coil and wick and after a lot of initial disasters I can now make a fair coil and wick
. But now I seem to have impromptu coiling sessions with people and most people seem to get the method in a short time but showing says a thousand words and almost all now make their own coils and wicks
. The ones that don't can't have fat fingers or just cant see that small, I still help and make coils for them and to make my life easy they are mostly converted to cotton wool wicks so I don't have to make coils I just change the wick.
and most of them can now roll a bit of cotton wool to re wick in an emergency so all is good.
So find a friend have a quick one on one coiling session and you will wonder why you had a problem
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