A situation they were put in, and not of their own making. It's a tinderbox situation out there, one little spark, boom. You've seen and experienced, how quickly things can spiral out of control, here on POTV. It's all too easy to say, they (the parents) shouldn't have done this, they shouldn't have said that. In a real time, live situation, it's not easy for people, including I may add, the police and the like, to always act in a manner, that is advantageous, rather than disadvantageous. Both parties in this case did not act in the best of ways, yet you seem to lay the blame at the door of stressed parents, who have just been invaded.