Miss Pepper
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@andi52 I'm well aware of it, but there's the option if there's nothing else. Unfortunately, as with many things unless there's money available compromises have to be made.
Direct cremations (I think that's what it's called), do budget funerals.
For those on benefits the DWP can help with a bit of money.
If there's a garden in your property or a friend's / relatives, well DIY but check current rules with the council and LL / HA if if in rentals.
Ask a funeral director what their cheapest one is, do that with others too. Don't use flower shops or if you do don't say it's for a funeral, better still buy a tree, plant or bush when money allows and use that as the memory. Don't hire cars to transport people. Don't do the wake / celebration of life after, or do it at home and ask people to bring something.
Things are so much different now compared to years ago, the internet allows go fund me, whip rounds and information at our fingertips to cut costs.
But most of all tell loved ones and friends now you don't want anything fancy, do it cheap or leave it to the council and don't get into debt as you won't care because you're dead.
Direct cremations (I think that's what it's called), do budget funerals.
For those on benefits the DWP can help with a bit of money.
If there's a garden in your property or a friend's / relatives, well DIY but check current rules with the council and LL / HA if if in rentals.
Ask a funeral director what their cheapest one is, do that with others too. Don't use flower shops or if you do don't say it's for a funeral, better still buy a tree, plant or bush when money allows and use that as the memory. Don't hire cars to transport people. Don't do the wake / celebration of life after, or do it at home and ask people to bring something.
Things are so much different now compared to years ago, the internet allows go fund me, whip rounds and information at our fingertips to cut costs.
But most of all tell loved ones and friends now you don't want anything fancy, do it cheap or leave it to the council and don't get into debt as you won't care because you're dead.