JosefK
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- Nov 22, 2013
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I'm a bit saddened to read judgements being made... it's not necessary, in all fairness.
I don't feel that my puny personal decision not to attend (should this decision hold) is 'unproductive and hurts the vaping community,' and I'm sorry you think like that, Verey... as I have a lot of time for you and your views.
I also don't think I'm being a bully, or have been rude or abusive... and I certainly haven't tried to convince anyone else not to attend or criticised or passed judgement on anyone else for whatever decision they have made on this issue. Me? Militant on this issue? Hardly. I'm not speaking on behalf of ANYone... just me.
I've read the posts on a few fora, FB and twitter and if it may seem that I'm 'kneejerking before all the facts are in'... well... that's just being dismissive, in my opinion. I'm not kneejerking, at all... I'm just not willing to support, or contribute to the success of, an event that isn't inclusive of ALL vapers, and not simply those that are deemed 'ok' by the organisers. This bit overrides the 'fun and meety' bit... for me... and as Steffi has just said...
"If I want to enjoy the company of vapers that I like and get along with, I'll do it at small scale meets where ego stroking, affectations of martyrdom and shameless self promotions of folk as vaping gurus will be less of an issue."
Absobloodylutelyright.
For those that attend... I sincerely hope you have a great time.
I don't feel that my puny personal decision not to attend (should this decision hold) is 'unproductive and hurts the vaping community,' and I'm sorry you think like that, Verey... as I have a lot of time for you and your views.
I also don't think I'm being a bully, or have been rude or abusive... and I certainly haven't tried to convince anyone else not to attend or criticised or passed judgement on anyone else for whatever decision they have made on this issue. Me? Militant on this issue? Hardly. I'm not speaking on behalf of ANYone... just me.
I've read the posts on a few fora, FB and twitter and if it may seem that I'm 'kneejerking before all the facts are in'... well... that's just being dismissive, in my opinion. I'm not kneejerking, at all... I'm just not willing to support, or contribute to the success of, an event that isn't inclusive of ALL vapers, and not simply those that are deemed 'ok' by the organisers. This bit overrides the 'fun and meety' bit... for me... and as Steffi has just said...
"If I want to enjoy the company of vapers that I like and get along with, I'll do it at small scale meets where ego stroking, affectations of martyrdom and shameless self promotions of folk as vaping gurus will be less of an issue."
Absobloodylutelyright.
For those that attend... I sincerely hope you have a great time.