I’ve been doing the same thing
@Mawsley - usually stick around 13st on average, over the course of the lockdown I managed to pack on another 2 stone. Being quite lanky i looked ridiculous, pretty much the same but pregnant.
Started around 5 weeks ago, a combination of working out what was going wrong, restricting calories and daily gym. I stared at 15st 2lbs 5 weeks ago and today weigh 13st 10lbs.
Quickly worked out that my main problem was liquids, wine, beer, milky coffees, sugary drinks etc. I figured to make this consistent I would have to make it at least mildly enjoyable, so I switched wine and beer for vodka and diet lemonade, lattes for black filter coffee or espresso, regular cola for Coke Zero etc.
I then opened a my fitness pal account and scan everything that I eat or drink daily. For my height and weight, to loose 2lbs a week I’m aloud 1500 calories per day, which I pretty much split in to 3x 500 calorie meals and don’t snack at all.
Hit the gym every morning before work, 30 minutes on the rowing machine and 30 minutes of weights, which to be honest I quite enjoy! Stick the headphones on and go to another planet for an hour is pretty refreshing, I definitely am more productive at work since starting this, I seem to just get shit done and feel nowhere near as stressed.
And to be honest, if I want a donut I’ll have a donut. I find that if you tell your self you’re absolutely not aloud it under any circumstances you very quickly get pissed off with it all and lapse. So if I want it, I’ll have it and then pay for it in the gym the following day
Would 100% highly recommended joining a gym though, being surrounded by people doing the same thing with the same goals certainly gives you a push to get it done and power through it. All sorts of people in there, fat, thin, average, male, female, old and young. For me the gym has made it fun and made a massive difference on my outlook, would recommend for sure!